Journal: What are your “rules to live by?" Please give your top three that you are not willing to negotiate on: which one is the most important and why? Explain each one and why it is soo important to you. What do you think made those three soo important? Do you think others feel the same? Give me all the explanation!! (Just FYI, it can be anything.... mine would be 1. you can say anything nicely (and I would explain that) 2. Don't confuse my kindness for weakness (and I would explain that) and 3. The people you hang around can change the trajectory of your life forever