answer:tell them that look at your life see what you have do you like it and that is all you can do just say i am your friend and i think you should not be with them
Explanation:
the reason i say that is because that if you say it strait up they will think you are crazy but it is not your ife and as a friend you should try to help them that you cant do anything about it tell them and then later they will think about hat and see wow they were right i'm a mess