Yes, war is never right.
No matter the reason, nobody should ever use it to cause war and take lives, especially lives of those who are innocent, you unfortunately got got in the middle. It hurts, it destroys, it steals at least hundreds of lives and hard earned houses (and food, depending if crops are grown) all for the sake of one or two reasons. It hardly ever solves anything when there are other ways- diplomancy, truce, or persuasion.
Is that okay?
Hope it helped,
Tiara