What are the different ways in which a person can behave in a relationship?
1) Behaving in an actively destructive manner by leaving the partner, threatening to end the relationship, or engaging in abusive acts
2) Behaving in an active, constructive manner by trying to improve the situation by discussing matters with the partner
3) Behaving in a passive but constructive manner by optimistically waiting and hoping for conditions to improve
4) Behaving in a passive but destructive manner by avoiding discussion of critical issues and reducing interdependence with the partner