Diagnostic criteria for BPD: frantic efforts to avoid real or imagined ______________ a pattern of unstable and intense interpersonal relationships characterized by alternating between extremes of idealization and ______________ ______________: markedly and persistently unstable self image or sense of self Impulsitivity in at least _______ areas that are potentially self damaging such as spending, sex, substance abuse, reckless driving, binge eating Recurrent __________ behavior, gestures, or threats, or self mutilating behavior affective instability due to a marked reactivity of ______: intense episodic dysphoria, irritability, or anxiety usually lasting a few hours and only rarely more than a few days chronic feelings of _____________ inappropriate intense ________ or difficulty controlling it transient ________ related paranoid ideation or severe dissociative symptoms